It’s not even 9 a.m. and I’m already in a shitty mood.
If you’re the type of person who just waits for someone to stop talking so that you can say whatever you want without actually listening, you can fuck right off.
My mother taught me a long time ago that that is the best way to prove you don’t care about someone.
You can tell yourself you’ve stopped caring
But you will be punched in the gut with how much you still do.
loveiseccentricandsoami:
She says live up to your first impression,
Well my best side was your worst invention .
Why can’t you live without the attention?
Why can’t you live without the attention?
“ Marry your best friend. I do not say that lightly. Really, truly find the strongest, happiest friendship in the person you fall in love with. Someone who speaks highly of you. Someone you can laugh with. The kind of laughs that make your belly ache, and your nose snort. The embarrassing, earnest, healing kind of laughs. Wit is important. Life is too short not to love someone who lets you be a fool with them. Make sure they are somebody who lets you cry, too. Despair will come. Find someone that you want to be there with you through those times. Most importantly, marry the one that makes passion, love, and madness combine and course through you. A love that will never dilute - even when the waters get deep, and dark. ”
N (via beatboxgoesthump)
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…I know that my weight does not determine my self worth. Every drop of sweat you produce and every rep that you can hold longer and every punch that you can hit harder - it is YOURS. And no one can take that away from you. That strength and that skill that you work to build, it cannot be defined by the weight on the scale. How beautiful you shine and how confident you are when you make a speech in class or nail a presentation at a conference - does anyone really care if you gained or lost 5 lbs? No, probably not.
I agree that weight loss can result in more confidence because you love how you look, therefore you feel good inside too. Cool, totally valid! But don’t let that image in the mirror determine how happy you are.
That’s one part. The other part is never settling.
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Your Weight Does Not Define You- Blogilates (via hungryrunner)
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I am the worst kind of person.
…the kind that lets people hurt me and hurt me and hurt me and I just never stand up for myself.
I can stand up for everyone else, but never myself.
fuckyeahfeminists:
grrlyman:
Shout out to everyone who had to be their own mother/parent.
Just because your parents weren’t capable doesn’t mean you didn’t deserve love and security.
I’m proud of us, of the amazing humans we’ve raised.
props to ya’ll!!!
“ I’m not saying that at some point love isn’t staying up until 2am phone calls or stealing kisses when you least expect it, or instantly falling for each other’s favorite songs because it is, or at least that’s what the lead up to it feels like, but real love, is so much more. It’s going out at 12am to get something to eat for your wife who can’t get out of bed, it’s listening to them as they explode with vulnerability on your living room couch talking about how they were only so young when they’re parents passed on. It’s remembering how someone likes their coffee in the morning without asking—without ever asking, it’s visiting someone in the hospital knowing the last thing you want to do is see them in that condition, it’s wanting to be with that person despite despite everything, the future, the past, and everything in between, it’s the intimate things that you don’t even realize involve such intimacy, but they do, in secret, like the pinky promises you two made behind your back, to love one another for always, in the time you thought you were in love, when you were actually just on your way to it. ”
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